This past week I was able to
continue observing crisis line shifts, support group meetings, as well as
observe my first intake. This was very
exciting for me because my supervisor has insisted that I get experiences from
all areas here at Sarah’s Inn and I really enjoy the face-to-face
interaction. I learned a lot from the
intern that I observed. I was able to
witness how she managed time throughout the session without rushing the client
along, as well as validating the clients experiences, providing a safe space to
talk, as well as educating her about services we offer and other local
resources.
I have had a few different
experiences when I observed group meetings.
The first week I sat in on a “tween” group, and was able to talk with
the kids and help them through the activity the facilitator had prepared. Last week, I ran childcare and was able to
play and read with a toddler. This week,
I had the opportunity to sit in the children’s group and assist with the
activity. This was both rewarding and
challenging in a few ways. I found it
rewarding because I was able to connect with the kids and communicate with the
kids who weren’t able to speak English.
I was able to build trust with them, and they involved me in their
conversations. This was also challenging
because 6-10 year olds are active, hyper, and constantly talk over each other,
so it was a little chaotic which was overwhelming. One situation that I found particularly
difficult was a conversation I had with a girl during the group activity. The activity was for each child to draw a
mountain, and have them identify the things that build them up (which they
would write inside the mountain), and the things that are hard and difficult to
deal with in their lifes (which they would write outside the mountain). While I was talking with her, she mentioned
that her dad made life hard and she visibly shut down. This was a drastic change in the behavior she
had displayed throughout the rest of the group and I panicked for a couple
seconds. In an attempted to bring her
back to the group I asked her what her dad does to build her up or make her
happy? She was able to mentally come
back to the group and tell me stories about times when her dad was a good thing
in her life. I’m worried that this may
have seemed dismissive by rushing through the negative emotions and trying to
change it to something positive, and I am planning on bringing this up in
supervision next week.
Because
of our location and surrounding communities, we do a lot of work with people
who identify as Hispanic and Latino.
Recently, there has been a lot of fear because of the ICE raids in
Chicago, which has caused many women and children to not come to group
meetings. Due to this, the advocacy and
counseling team has made it a point to bring up in team meetings how we can
work with our clients as well as keeping the doors secure. In meetings, the supervisors discussed and
educated us on U-Visa and VAWA, and how we can work with clients who are
immigrants on obtaining legal residents here.
They laid out the requirements for each, how long it generally takes to
fill out, and how we can assist clients in this process. I also learned that there are safe spaces
that ICE cannot raid, but it has to do with federal funding. Because we do receive federal funding, ICE
can raid our building if they have a valid warrant signed by a judge. One of the safe places that was mentioned
were churches, and there is actually a recent story about a woman in Denver hiding
from ICE in a church. The advocacy and
counseling supervisors set up a new procedure for how the front door is
answered and what we will do if ICE comes and tries to enter the building. If this were to happen, legally we do not
need to let them in, and we are to immediately get a director or one of the
supervisors to handle the situation.
Sarah,
ReplyDeleteI am really happy you are having so many different experiences at Sarah's Inn. Your supervisor sounds like she wants to expose you to all different kinds of opportunities to give you a well-rounded experience. I am so jealous you got to work with so many kids this week, that sounds like a fun experience. I think that if I had been in your shoes when that little girl started to shut down, I would have done the same thing that you did. I do not think it was dismissive of her situation, but I do not know the answer as to the best way to handle that. I am glad you are going to ask your supervisor about that. I am really saddened to hear how the ICE raids are causing women to not seek help. It only further traps them in their situation, because they are afraid of their home life, but they are also afraid of the outside world. I hope that things change so that women in these situations can get help. I am glad that your agency is putting a procedure in place for if the ICE comes, but I am sad that it needs to be. It is just not right for them to go looking for people at a facility where they are trying to get help. It is just not right.
Hi, Sarah! I enjoyed reading your journal. It is great to see you are working well with the kids. Do not worry about mistakes you think you have made because this is a learning process and there is always room to go. I do think it was good that you brought of positive aspects of her father because it is good for her to remember those times as well, and not just dwell on hard times. You are doing awesome! Keep it up!
ReplyDeleteSarah,
ReplyDeleteYou demonstrated a great skill in the process of working with that girl which is evaluation. You immediately and are continuing to evaluate the work that is going on and look to make adjustments to continue to better serve your clients. There are lots of ways to help, and with each of those ways there may be some other benefits and consequences. It is possible that moving towards the positive did not allow her to process what was troubling her, but it is also possible that what she was experiencing in that moment was too strong of an emotion and it is better to help her through that and come back to it a different time. Essentially, there are multiple ways to handle a situation, and you have identified the potential pitfall of your approach but also there are some potential benefits. Additionally, assuming the girl comes back you have more information to work with to continue to help her.